Sunday, May 30, 2010

At the end of a long week...







We have only had good news this week – thank God! Strangely enough, we are feeling rather flat and somewhat exhausted. I think it’s just the relief of coming to the end of a busy, emotional month. Work has also been intense for both Murray and I. Bring on the green pastures and quiet waters (amidst the vuvuzelas).

On Thursday I went for my 22-week scan at the Foetal Assessment Centre at Pretoria East Hospital. Wow! My gynae was right when he said we were in for a treat. The sonar equipment is unbelievable, and it was a wondrous experience to see (and measure, weigh, check...) our little man from top to toe – organs, limbs, fluid levels, absolutely everything. He is already 25cm long and doing well! He was hiccupping, sucking his thumb - too cute! I couldn’t picture how on earth the doc would be able to check for cataracts, but sure enough we could see his little eyes very clearly – beautiful, translucent eyes. No sign of cataracts! Our ineffable relief surprised us – don’t think we’d realised how much it had been weighing on us. We are so, so grateful to God.

Friday morning we were back at the Pretoria Eye Institute just after 6h00, to check Cammy in for an EUA. He went through the usual waiting stages in the ward: cheerful, energetic, grumpy, thirsty, hungry, exhausted. They took him through to theatre at around 9h00. He wasn’t too freaked out – told the anaesthetist all about the special hospital mask he had to wear, etc... Murray and Jacobus checked his retinas, corneas, pressures, etc and everything is looking fine! The miracle is that his right eye has grown slightly, for the first time since he was born. His left eye has also grown a bit, as it has been doing. So both contact lens prescriptions have changed. He recovered well from the anaesthetic and was his usual maniacal self by Friday afternoon, riding his black motorbike up and down Granny’s driveway.

Friday morning was also particularly special because we finally met the Verdal-Austins, a family from Cape Town with whom we’ve been in touch over the past five months or so. Their baby boy, Joseph, was also born with cataracts and microphthalmia. Jacobus actually operated on Joseph’s right eye on Friday morning as well, to clear up post-op scar tissue that had developed from the cataract surgery. Craig, Brigitte, their two girls, and Joey, came for supper on Friday night and it was great to connect with them, and to remind one another that there is a future for these little people, no matter what they might face (see the photos – Lola really liked them, too!).

Cam’s nights are going ok. He still stirs a few times, but this morning he actually told us that he ‘had a dream about the purple sea...’?! It really helps that he is able to tell us what goes on in his night time world.

Friday, May 21, 2010

Trinity Church conference































































Last weekend we travelled down to Hilton in the Natal Midlands, for the conference at Trinity Church. What a beautiful part of the world. We stayed with wonderful people, and met many more over the course of the weekend. The conference took place on Saturday, and Murray and I spoke in each of the three different sessions, along with two other couples who have faced some hectic trials. I shared a bit of our testimony again in the church service on Sunday morning. It was tough for us to talk about our journey with Cam, but probably quite good for us, too. We were utterly physically exhausted by Saturday afternoon – we hadn’t realised how much it would take out of us. But, it seems that people were blessed and encouraged, and we were humbled and grateful to have been used in whatever way God may have chosen.

Amidst the heaviness of the weekend there were some light moments. Cam was with us, of course, and he was so good. We took turns to keep him busy at the back of the church with plenty of toys, and another little boy. He was exceedingly cheerful and oblivious, for which I am very grateful, and at one stage he announced very loudly, ‘Want to wee on Cammy’s potty!’ Another time, while Murray was sharing, he thought it appropriate to sing ‘Jesus loves me.’ Very loudly. :)

His sleeping is going so-so. He needs lots of comforting during the night, and lots of singing... But it’s hard to be mad at him at 3:00 am when he feels my face and says, ‘Mommy’s so pretty!’ I pray a lot that he would start sleeping through the night again, and that he would decide that vegetables are indeed palatable, but I’m also trying not to major on the minors, and to have discernment and wisdom, choosing to err on the side of comforting him too much rather than missing something that may be troubling his little heart. I’m also very aware that he will only be little for a little while longer, and probably a time will come when I will quite miss him feeling my face at 3:00 am. As for the vegetables, I persevere. And I am grateful for Junglevites!

Cam’s EUA at the Pretoria Eye Institute is now scheduled for Friday 28th May.

The photos are of the busy little gardener, collecting leaves in his wheelbarrow. He also took great delight in wearing his swimming goggles for part of the trip home last Sunday.

Tuesday, May 4, 2010

Joberg2C






































































































































































1. What Dad was experiencing along the way (check out http://www.joberg2c.co.za/)
2. Waiting for Dad on the beach...
3. The finish!
4. Post-race celebrations and more time on the beach :)

Monday, May 3, 2010

Lots happening this month


I took this photo on one of the many rainy days we’ve had over the past couple of weeks... My indoor entertainment ideas were already running low, and then Cam started eating the crayons...! :)

The month of May had an exciting start! Cam, my folks, Coral, Meagan, Craig and I all travelled down to Scottburgh this weekend to see Murray and Toby finish the 9 day, 923 km Joberg2C mountain bike race. I’m married to a hero! :) I was so impressed that they finished strong, despite various injuries et al. I will post photos of the race soon... Cam and I really missed Murray and we were thrilled that Daddy was ‘finished riding his red bike’. Murray is stiff and sore and ecstatic to have done it all. And we’ll have to start saving for a tandem so Cam can do this sort of thing with him when he’s a bit bigger...!

I’d like to ask for prayer for various other happenings this month.

We’ve been invited to share our story of the past two years – with regard to Cameron’s eyes, our reactions, our faith – at a conference at a church in Pietermaritzburg, on 15th May.

On Wednesday 19th May, Cam goes in for another EUA (exam under anaesthetic). Pray for Murray and Jacobus as they check, measure, assess, refract... Pray that the pressure in his eyes will be low.

On Thursday 20th May it’ll be two years to the day that we found out about Cam’s eyes.

The three (four!) of us are going away for a quiet family weekend from 21-23 May. Pray for a time of refreshing and rest. I’ve been asked about Cam’s eyes a lot lately, and for some reason it’s been hard again. We will also need to ‘go back to the beginning’ as we prepare for, and speak at, the conference. It’s not easy to force my mind back to where we were two years ago.

On Thursday 27th May I will be 22 weeks pregnant and we’ll be going for an extra special scan at the Foetal Assessment Centre, to check how Baby No. 2 is developing, and if there are any signs of congenital cataracts. I’ve had a great pregnancy so far and I’ve hardly dwelt upon the portentous possibilities, but when I do it is somewhat terrifying.

Speaking of Baby No. 2, he is kicking lots (just soft little polite kicks; nothing violent yet!). I can’t wait to meet him, and to start blogging his little life, too! :)

Lately I’ve heard a few messages on the life of Joseph, from different sources. What has struck me is that as believers our promotion is in the hands of God. If he wants us in a particular position or circumstance, he will put us there, regardless of earthly circumstances, disabilities, etc. Joseph had ‘slave’ on his CV; next thing he was prime minister! From a worldly point of view, he had no prospects, and yet God’s plans for his life were bigger than he could ever have imagined. He also recognised that God was orchestrating and using the events of his life – ‘You intended to harm me, but God intended it all for good’ (Genesis 50:20). And I’ve been blown away by how Joseph forgave completely, and was willing to die to self.